(Closed) STD wording/ addressing question..

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Where should I put a disclaimer about no kids invited?
    Put it on the website.. : (6 votes)
    67 %
    Don't put it on the website or STD, wait for formal invite.. : (1 votes)
    11 %
    Put it on the STD.. "Adult only occasion, formal invite to follow" : (2 votes)
    22 %
    Other.. I'll comment! : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    4439 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

    @bbsoon2be:  If the entire family was invited I wrote the STD/Invitation to “Mr. and Mrs. John Smith and Family”  when it’s just the couple invited it’s just “Mr and Mrs. John Smith.

    If they make travel plans for the whole family, that is there mistake and it will be sorted out when they get the invitation with an RSVP card saying ‘2 seats have been reserved in your honor’ or however you choose to word it.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1798 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I would put a short note on the website just to make sure it is clear that children won’t be invited. A lot of people assume they can bring their kids, so its a good idea to be as direct as possible about so they can plan accordingly

    Post # 5
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    7902 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

    I agree with @mchitt329, but there’s no harm in also putting a note somewhere on the website. Make sure, as well, that your parents know so that they can field questions if anyone calls to ask.

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