Post # 1
my son was not invited. The groom is my husbands son. We have all been together for 13. Years the boys lived in the same house some growing up and my son still lives at home with us.im just baffled and hurt an pissed
Post # 2
this seems more of a rant as you havent actually asked an etiquette question… really more infomation is need
what is your sons age, what type/size wedding, whats the siblings history/background together, are they close etc…
Post # 3
Hello is anyone seeing this post
Post # 4
What is anyone supposed to say? You have not provided details, nor have you asked a question.
Post # 5
No im not ranting just never posted. The wedding is 75 people. My son is 32 and a fine young man no type of drama. He has invited all his natural brothers and sisters. People from out of towns. Also he sees my son at our house at least once a month, just doesn’t seem right.
Post # 6
If these boys were raised as siblings in a blended family, your son really should be invited unless there has been some sort of terrible falling out between them. Is it possible that something that you are unaware of seriously damaged their relationship? Can your Darling Husband ask his son his reasoning for not inviting your son?
Post # 7
kimsplace : He may not have sent an invite as it was an assumption that he was coming. Talk to your husband. This is ridiculous.
Post # 8
My husband did ask him why and he said thought he would have to work so we didn’t invite him. There has been no riff between the no they were no besties. The grandmother is flying in staying with us so the three of us will be getting ready and leave for wedding an I’m suppose to be like by son you were not invited??
Post # 9
Do you actually know that he intentionally wasn’t invited?
Post # 11
At 32, your son is a grown man. He can talk to the groom, if he wants to.
Post # 12
he doesn’t even know he wasn’t he is thinking that he is…of course. I have not told him yet because I don’t want to hurt him… and it will. Was just asking if it’s proper not to invite him.
Also keep inind I’ve been good to the groom and bride
Post # 13
kimsplace : Is there a reason your son doesn’t know he wasn’t invited? Would he not have figured this out by now if you received an invitation and he didn’t? He is 32 so would certainly get his own invitation even if he still lives at home with you.
Unless there is some valid reason that you are not sharing (e.g. your son is a drug dealer or pedophile). he should have been invited, even if the couple thought he might not be able to attend.
Now that your husband has brought this to your son’s attention, he and his Fiance should right heir wrong and send him an invitation.
Post # 14
kimsplace : This likely won’t be a popular answer but I simply would not attend (along with your husband). The whole family should be invited.
Post # 15
kimsplace : your son still lives with you at the ages of 32? You got other problems than the stupid wedding