(Closed) Step/Adopted Deceased Grandfather Issue

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
4824 posts
Honey bee

I dont see this as a problem.

I would include them all and if there are people who would wonder why the grandpa was included then they probably dont know her well and probably wont say anything.

If they do say something you say “By way of her adoption he is her grandpa unfortunately she did not have a chance to love him as she does her grandma by way of adoption:

Post # 5
62 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@drsalter:  my dear listen to me and listen to me WELL…..this is your daugthers day! What she did was beautiful to even try and figure out how to include a man that has passed away that she never met is honorable and touching. You let those two mean and evil CHILDREN say what they want they are not important. Opinions are just like bu**holes everyone has one ;)If they want to be mean and nasty and say “she’s not really apart of their family” then that just shows how immature and mean spirited they truly are. Do not let ANYONE take away from this joyous time that you will never get back. Ypu hug your daugther tell her to brush it off and continue to plan the wedding of her dreams.


It may also do you good to point out…that most grandfathers dont have ONLY one granddaugther and that at some point alive or passed his name would be honored by a  granddaugther of his! This is just so sad how can they be so mean ugh makes me sad  Family is not always family through simply bloodline. Families are married together…. families are bonded….. families are made I have a saying blood makes us relatives…but loyalty respect and love makes of us family 😉

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