Post # 16
Karen J : Not sure why people are bashing for co-sleeping. If that works for you great, however you will need to eventually have to move your child to their own sleeping space if you want to introduce a new person into her life. Please also for future reference take a relationship slower when introducing your child to that person and don’t say that person is a step dad until you are actually married. Unfortunately your relationship will not work with having your child in your bed with you, esepecially a new relationship.
Post # 17
Karen J : As a woman who personally saw men in and out of my mother’s life, I think you need to tread carefully with who you bring into your daughter’s life. How you approach romantic and sexual relationships will teach your daughter how to handle her own, and set her expectations for male behavior. I would not introduce my daughter to someone after four months and I definitely would not have him sleeping in my home with my child in the house, whether she is in the room or down the hall. God forbid you bring a child molester into your house or give your daughter abandonment issues any time a new guy doesn’t work out.
Post # 18
“In how you make your relationship successful w a child he has no children so maybe that’s why I’m panicking as well. He seem like he doesn’t mind but idk. Help!!”
Besides the co sleeping. It’s weird that the only concern here is for the boyfriend & none for the daughter. “He seems like he doesn’t mind but idk”. This can’t be real.