(Closed) Stepmom Bees!?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1668 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

My stepdaughter is 19.  She will probably be a groomswoman with her dad.  Even if she isn’t, we will probably have her sing a song.  She is very talented.  Her mom will not be invited.

Post # 4
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3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@NJmeetsBX: My stepson is 19! LOL!  He’ll be 20 in Oct.  His part is gonna be top-secret till after the wedding.  Mostly ’cause he wants to surprise everyone!

Post # 5
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385 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I will be a step Mom in December.  My Son is 22, his girls are 26,31 and 33 . The two oldest girls are married, the yougest girl just got engaged and my son is VERY single right now (to his dismay).  The kids are not taking part in the wedding other than as guests.  My Son however will be escorting my mother down the aisle.  No the ex spouses (either mine or his) will  be invited.  We are all on friendly terms.  His ex wife hugged me and congratulated me but I really don’t think she wants to witness us getting married.  I would think that would be very painful to watch. 

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am a step mom.  We had both our boys be ushers in the wedding, they are 14 (his) and 18 (mine).  The steps mother has passed away, but she def would not have been invited.  That would have created very awkward situations with his family and made mine very uncomfortable.  It also would not have been fair to her, we were very careful not to make her feel bad during the planning process and didn’t share any details with the kids so they wouldn’t discuss them with her (when she was alive). 

Post # 7
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1371 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I am a step, my FI’s son is 5, 6 at wedding time.  His mother will DEFINITELY NOT be invited (she hates me, and has zero role in his life).

He will be our ring bearer, walk my mom down the aisle (they adore each other) and we will be doing a family hand fastening, as well as a family marriage certificate we will all sign.

Post # 8
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3624 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My FI’s two boys (I loath the term step-mom/bonus-mom) will be 4 & 7 at the time of our wedding. They’re adorable. <3

Unfortunately, due to their mothers nasty personality, they will not be attending our party.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I am a stepmom.  We have already had a civil ceremony…with NO wedding party.  In our church ceremony, my husband’s daugthers will stand  up with him and my kids will stand up with me.  His girls and mine will all have matching dresses.  The kids are all teenagers.

My husband’s ex-wife will not be invited, nor will my ex-husband.  We are friendly and communicate with both of them, but we do not socialize with them.

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I am a stepmum too.  

My stepson will be 10 and he will be in the wedding party.  He is be the ring bearer.  My son will be almost 5 and will be a pageboy. 

The ex’s are not invited to the wedding.  

I think I am going to try and get 10mins with my step son on the day and just tell him how much it means to me that he is with us and that I really look forward to being a part of his life and seeing him grow into a young man and hopefully be at his wedding one day.   I just think it will be nice for me to talk to him and let me know what he means to me when I marry his dad. 🙂  Almost makes me cry just thinking about it, what I am going to be like on the day. LOL

Post # 11
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385 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@renee_leigh81: It sounds like he is very lucky to have you in his life.  My step mother passed away in April.  I had her in my life for 35 years.  I adored her.  So great to hear a step Mom loving on her kids.  Good Job.

Post # 12
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170 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

My stepson, age 6 at the time of our wedding, was our Best Man.  He did a wonderful job, and even gave a speech.  His mom was not invited.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am a stepmom. My SS is 13 and he was an usher at our wedding along with his 13 year old cousin, our nephew. He came to the reception and the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner as well, but went back to his aunt’s house after the reception that night which is where his mother picked him up Sunday morning. She is a pest and was not at all welcome to participate in one second of that weekend. The less we have to see of her the better. 

Post # 14
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’m a bonus mom. My bonus son is 3 years old and he was our ring bearer. He did an amazing job. We actually debated inviting bio-mom, but about 4 months the wedding she lost her mind and eluded to the fact that she was still in love with Darling Husband. She also said that “I had the life she always wanted” and it felt a little bit like a barrier cross.

Post # 15
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2095 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I will be a step mom. He has 2 children a girl 9 and a boy about to turn 8. They are the flower girl and ring bearer. Their mother does not raise the children so she does not even know aobut the wedding let alone be invited to it.

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