(Closed) Stepsister Drama..(Long)

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I do think she is jealous. Its sad, that she can’t let her feelings go so she can have a relationship with you. Do you have any close gfs? I know you want a sister, but sometimes close gfs can be better than a sister. You want people who love you and your Fi to stand up for you, not someone who is your “sister” but acts like anything but. I would just stop trying, and start to deal with the fact that she will never be your friend, let alone your sister

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I am so sorry. I think rejection from the people we most love and want in our lives hurts the worst and is the hardest to accept and move beyond, but this relationship sounds like an emotional drain and energy suck. You’ve bent over backwards for years to be a sister to Jane and make a place for her in your life, and now it’s time to let go of the idea that this woman is your sister, or will ever be your sister, just because your parents got married when you were kids. That’s clearly not the relationship she wants with you; it’s not your fault, it’s her choice. (And her loss.)

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Your stepsister is still allowing her inner “little girl” to be in charge. She has nevr moved past her initial resentment- she is stuck at age 9.

You have  done all that you can to maintain a sisterly relationship. She chooses not to.

Post # 7
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1489 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree with Elvis… It sounds like she is not willing to budge or do anything so there is no reason for you to apologize or feel bad.

 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee

I have a sister very similar. I say she’s jealous and is just a bitter angry hateful person. You don’t really want her there because its a day for you and your husband to be to celebrate and she’ll turn it all on her and there will be no love for the two of you. Move on and ask a close gf that is like a real sister. I’m sure she’ll be honored and will love every second of it! 

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