(Closed) Sticky FSIL Situation..

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
1420 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

“No, SeptemberBride and I decided to keep it to only our close friends.”


I know it’s easier said than done because Future Brother-In-Law might get offended, but sometimes it just has to be said…

Post # 4
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’m sure Lindsey’s fiance knows about whatever went on between you two.  I really don’t think this is a touchy subject. You just say ‘No, she isn’t.’. If you weren’t invited to hers why would she be invited to yours?

Post # 5
1281 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@SeptemberBride2013:  Eh, if you weren’t invited to hers, neither her nor Future Brother-In-Law should be upset if you don’t invite her to yours.  There’s no problem with sayind “No, we decided keep the guest list small and only go with our close friends”

Post # 6
951 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Ok.. I would say of course you shouldn’t have to invite her… UNLESS her fiance is invited. You said you were having a joint bachelor/bachelorette – if he was invited, I think it’s inappropriate not to invite her.

Post # 7
1342 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@LMD:  That is perfect!

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