- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
I’ll try to keep this short.. my future brother in law’s fiance (let’s call her Lindsay) used to be one of my best friends. She met her now fiance through me and my fiance. So, we’re now marrying brothers. Over the past few years, her and I have grown apart and I would no longer call her a friend (the details belong in another post). Not only is she no longer friends with me, but she isn’t friends with ANY of my friends anymore (we all went to HS together).
My fiance and I have decided to do a joint Bachelor-Bachelorette party and I am not planning to invite Lindsay. I think there would be a lot of tension and I really want to be able to relax and be myself. We’re only planning to hang out with the boys for one night so she would be with us for the rest of the time.. awkward.
She’s doing a really small bachelorette party next week that I was NOT invited to (which I was happy about) but Lindsay’s fiance just texted my fiance to ask if Lindsay is invited to my party… um how do I deal with this?
I’m not looking for advice on mending my relationship with Lindsay, etc. (we’re fine with eathother). I just need a tactful way out of a sticky situation. Please help!