Post # 272
Member8419 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
- weddingbound
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
@bunnyharriet: Yep pretty sure it’s not the mom…. Very strange indeed.
- CategoriesRelationship
poll: Should my friend tell his fiance?
Yes. : (441 votes)
84 %
No. : (43 votes)
8 %
She should tell him to tell her (even though he may not) and leave it that. : (41 votes)
8 %
MemberPost # 273
Member104 posts
Blushing bee
- bakura48
- 7 years ago
[content moderated for personal attack] my personal belief is that you have no right to meddle in someone else’s personal life, even if the person involved is horrible. if you really feel like you just NEED to tell the girl, please do not stage this dramatic revelation to get yourself off. How do you think she would feel? Just send her a facebook message–it would do the same thing. jesus.
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Post # 274
Member854 posts
Busy bee
Post # 275
Member104 posts
Blushing bee
- bakura48
- 7 years ago
@Chrissy26: yet you guys are still talking about it
AND coming up with new plots. why do you care if his fiance is pretending to be his mom?!?!
Post # 276
Member363 posts
Helper bee
- MrsTwister
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
Oh gosh…this is a sticky situation….I hope you finally reach the fiance and she finds out she’s about to marry a CREEP.
Good luck hun. I know there’s a lot of bad vibes on this thread but you are doing the right thing by trying to give her information ANY girl would want if this was happening to them.
Post # 277
Member854 posts
Busy bee
- Chrissy26
- 7 years ago
@lettuce: why do yocreate what “strangers” are doing….if this is so disturbing to you then you could easily open a different thread. It’s a sucky situation and I check back here hoping the poor lady that’s being screwed over found out or thanked the OP. I for one and not getting some sick pleasure out of the story.
Post # 278
Member207 posts
Helper bee
Post # 279
Member613 posts
Busy bee
- ButterflyKisses13
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Omg this is absolutely horrible.
@bunnyharriet: OP, you did the best you could do. I can understand your sincere compassion for this siutation. I really hope things work out for the poor girl.
Post # 280
Member8419 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
- weddingbound
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
@Chrissy26: I’ve noticed a patten with user lettuce! Just ignore her…… She was somewhat rude on one of my posts the other day…..
Post # 281
Member8419 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
Post # 282
Member954 posts
Busy bee
- dancindavinci
- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014 - Savannah, GA
I wish your friend would just tell her.
Post # 283
Member6040 posts
Bee Keeper
- stardustintheeyes
- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2019 - City, State
any update on this?? im so curious!
Post # 284
Member1293 posts
Bumble bee
Post # 285
Member854 posts
Busy bee
- Chrissy26
- 6 years ago
@weddingbound: ahh, good to know. Thanks 🙂
Post # 286
Member2269 posts
Buzzing bee
- bunnyharriet
- 6 years ago
There isn’t much to update.
My friend received that text that said, “this is matt’s mom. who is this?”
She never replied, and hasn’t heard from Matt since! That’s strange since they would text while he worked and talk on the phone before and after he worked.
My friend thinks the fiance found out, but I don’t think so. I’m not sure what’s going on. I think he just found someone new (someone he doesn’t have to try to convince to have sex with him) and has decided my friend isn’t worth the effort.
Meanwhile, he changed his name on meetme.com to a fake name. Weird.
Btw, my friend told me today that he had told her he “doesn’t believe in condoms” and they make sex feel terrible. Oh dear…
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