(Closed) Still feels like I want to live in my wedding party

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
1811 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

What a blessing to have so much love in your life!  It makes my heart happy to see so much joy!

Post # 5
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522 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I keep thinking this will happen to me after my wedding… I have dreamt how it would be so many times and have put so much love into the preparation  that I’mI afraid I’ll miss it so much! 

I told several of my married friends how I felt and they looked at me like I was crazy 🙁

They said they had never felt this way and were just so happy to be married to the man they love. I felt bad for telling them, and I too will be so happy to be married to him but I wish I could celebrate our love that way over and over. We have been going out since we were 16! 10 years ago! And I’ve been dreaming of the perfect wedding to my perfect man for so long. I’m just afraid the moment will slip away too fast

Post # 6
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2965 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I know I am going to feel this way. I am going to dread when the date gets closer and closer. I am enjoying the date being this far away because I know when its all over, its over. Fiance is ready for it to be over so I can stop obssessing over this wedding stuff but Im enjoying it because I only get to be a bride for that day. 

Post # 7
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452 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Oh honey, I’m sorry your feeling this way! I guess I didn’t feel that way, but I always pretty much let my mom and sister just go at it in the wedding planning department.  I was one of those brides who just wanted to be married and didn’t care about any of the details.  Looking back, I wish I would have made it our day instead of essentially just showing up.  After, I did sort of have that ‘nobody cares about my wedding anymore’ moment, but it wasn’t that upsetting.  I do have a friend however who is incredibly consumed by her wedding, and I wouldn’t be surprised if something like this happened to her.  I also know a girl who had a brief cry once they got back to the hotel room and it was time to get out of her dress – I guess it dawned on her that her wedding was over. I don’t think it’s uncommon to have a little post wedding blues, but I also think that surrounding yourself by everything wedding isn’t going to help. I guess my recommendation to the op would be to just remember all the love you experienced on your special day, how you wouldn’t change a thing about your day, that it was perfect and no other day could be as perfect as the one you had, and probably step away from the wedding video/photos for awhile. Also get out, stay busy, and look forward to things in the future.   Hope your starting to feel better already as being this post was from three weeks ago. 

Post # 8
Hostess
16214 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I definitely felt that way. Heck, I still feel that way. After so much anticipation, the day just flies by. Thank goodness for photo and video!

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