- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
So I have had a bit of a hiatus from Weddingbee. It wasn’t really intentional, but I got a promotion late last year and life went crazy (literally 14 hour work days, 6 days a week) and I just couldn’t even think about future weddings!
We’ve had a couple of chats at the start of the year and I pointed out to him all the things we have to do in the next 5 years (travel, marriage, move houses then babies) and how if we work backwards from the last thing we want to do (Babies) then we really need to be getting engaged this year sometime or early next year.
I talked about my frustrations with waiting because we’ve sorted finances now, so that reason isnt there anymore. Now it is just a matter of commitment and timing. Im doing my best not to bring anything up, although I did have a mini breakdown last week when 2 of our friends got engaged on the same weekend, so all I have heard from everyone else is “Wow, we all had bets that you guys were next!”
But for the most part, I am OK with the waiting at the moment, because I feel as if there is some end in sight… maybe not the next few months, but SOMETIME soon. And hopefully work will be not so crazy so I can be around here a bit more!