- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2010
Venting, sorry its so long but it will hopefully feel good to write things down and maybe even get some advise.
All I have to say is omg right when i think that yay its all planned out now only a few small details left boom the bomshell. Now im looking for a different caterer. I just found out that the cheap photographer I got SUCKS! I guess i get what i pay for with her but still I thought she’d take a little better pics then i would take. (A friend from work just got done using her for her daughters wedding and showed me the pics)( lets just say that when she went to walmart to have a few developed they didnt even ask her if she had the photo rights Hahaha). Ive been asked about photo rights for pics that ive taken with my simple digital camera. Im so happy to know that my bridesmaid debra is coming from oregon about 3 weeks before the wedding. i have no one! not even a mother or anything. All the while that im getting wedding stuff done and calling person after person. Caterers/photographer/dj’s ( I found a good one of those for 400 im happy about that) / picking out music/ getting the right size dresses for everyone/shoes/ crowns/ baskets ect./ hair appointments/figuring out what flowers and how much. Calling my family and his family and making sure arrangements are being made./ While im doing all of that and working 50 hours a week and taking care of the two kids and making my man happy/ He has our house under constructiion. I mean im so wore out its unbelievable. Heck my finger got hurt while doing construction a few weeks ago/ (tearing out flooring) I think my nail is going to fall off i mean it is now black…hahah so much for pritty nails on the wedding day right. its a good thing he isnt with me for my nails.
I never would of believed that a wedding even a small one (68 people) would be so much work. I have spent almost a year planning this and i cant believe how much i still have left to do. ugggg…. Help…. What are you doing to make sure things are done without spending day in and day out planning and organizing and buying and calling. Brian even said the other day…”what are you going to do after the wedding? your now so use to consistantly planning/organizing and such?. I honestly thought that this was fun at first but 10 1/2 months later and im about out of it.
Thanks for listening