(Closed) still waiting…

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee

Have you talked to him about it?  I would maybe just ask him, in a non-threatening way, about whether you and he are still on the same timeline.

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

LOL after reading your title I said me too :D.  But I’m pretty sure it’s coming this year probably for the both of us. i was sort of irritated (especially because in the words of method man “i don’t need a ring to be his wife” as long as he asks i’m happy) especially after reading the kimberley process stuff, i’ll have to research A LOT before choosing something. i truly believe that men do not see the big deal in getting married. it’s like some cult they have. they want to be menly men without us proposing to them, but at the same time they want it to be all their idea which is IMPOSSIBLE because we’ve already spoken to them about marriage. i think that your time is coming really soon.  it seems like he’s just spoiling you and enjoying time with you as his girlfriend, you know?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

girlies, disappointment has been the theme of my life over the past couple of months. but i really feel like 2010 is kind of a clean slate for me and i am now officially putting the past behind me.

@bunny – it’s going to be awesome when it happens, and it seems like your man wants it to be realyl special, and probably held off from doing it during the holidays. i know it’s going to happen for you, we just need to hang in there and be strong!

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

@bunny: i feel ya on the timeline thing.  which is why we are pretty much set on the weekday wedding (that way i don’t necessarily HAVE to plan that long.) luckily for him (well and us actually) i really am wanting a shorter engagement (6 month-ish) but we’ll see…

@jaxx: ((HUGS)) girlie 😀

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

i’d love to have a shorter engagement, but alas, i’m broke as a joke and need as much time as humanly possible to save!! sigh…

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I completely understand. I was told that I would be getting a ring at the end of the year too. No such luck on this side. Hopefully this year there will be many engagments… including the both of us. Good luck in waiting.

 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

Nothing wrong with venting! That’s what this board is here for…that and when you get the ring and come back and gush about it! Laughing I know you are impatient though, especially when a month and year picked out!

Crebre-I want a short engagement too! 6 months is my limit. Thankfully he feels the same way!

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