Still waiting after 8 years

posted 1 month ago in Waiting
Post # 16
384 posts
Helper bee

Bee wake up. Hes likely seeing  other  people. I dont know how you accepted him not living with his family unless he and you arent in a relationship. 

Post # 17
396 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2021

Most of the men in these waiting stories already have the husband/wife relationship but without the legal commitment (ie. Already living together, sharing finances, sometimes with children etc).

Your boyfriend is such a commitment phobe that FIVE YEARS after having a child with you you still don’t even live together?

This guy clearly wants to have his cake and eat it too. So he gets to play happy families with you when it suits him, and then return to his bachelor pad. 

I never ‘jump to the dump’ on these threads but wake UP bee. You don’t even have the most basic levels of commitment from this guy and now you expect him to actually propose and (in his eyes) ruin his bachelor lifestyle that you’ve allowed him to continue?? He is already telling you with his actions that that is not going to happen, you need to listen to him. 

Post # 18
234 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2018


Post # 19
9 posts
  • Wedding: July 2018

You don’t even live together??!! Um hello stop hoping, stop being blind. You have your apartment and your kid. Take the guy to court and demand child support and say bye!!!!!

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