- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
So, BF’s been acting weird this past weekend… He wanted to forgo the Movies ( he’s a die hard movie buff – so this was weird) to sit at his home and have “pillow talk”… he asked me what I thought about children and where I’d want to live and what I think about him?!?! What’s funny is that we talk all the time… about everything and nothing… I try to stay clear of wedding/engagement stuff so that he doesnt feel pressured but this was weird because of the way he approached the entire conversation and the topics he wanted to broach… I responded (with the right answers i hope) and we laughed and cracked jokes after the “heavy topics” were out the way. The next day I sent him a text to say I was thinking about him and that I enjoyed our ” chat”… He responded by saying that he was trying to be a better friend and man.. so that I would be happy with him… Huh??
That’s where I was thrown for a loop… I’ve never indicated that I wasnt happy with him… He’s such a sweet guy, he tells me he loves me all the time, treats me like a princess and keeps me smiling… So I have no clue why he would say that. I did make it clear to him at the end of 2011 that I would not date him for too much longer without progressing in our relationship – because I was not going to just “date” him in 2012. But that’s all Ive said. He said that he knows what he needs to do… So, valentines day is tomorrow so i am going crazy cause he’s acting weird… I am NOT a fan of V-day. You need to love me everyday not just one day.
Here’s the question… For those engaged ladies… what signs did your men give off before they popped the question?