- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014
So these past few weeks have been so hectic and busy for me. Last month started fashion school and that is going great. However with working full time and taking 5 courses this term and are taking so much of my time and energy. Anyway in a few weeks I’ll be halfway through and finally getting the swing of things.
My SO has been talking and planning a lot about weddings but not proposals (wants it a surprise). I’ve been having a bit of family problems just basic miscommunication but because I’ve never been treated like an adult at home I’ve been considering moving out. I don’t want it to be a rushed situation but within the next 6 months it just might happen. Which brings me to my first set of waiting news SO said if the moving out situation happens earlier than planned, wanted to wait until we were married, he will move in with me because as his future wife it’s not fair to put all the bills on me when he would move there eventually.
Then SO tells me some possibly exciting news yesterday. He was off on vacation the past few weeks and it was his first day back. One of his bosses is from Canada and has been SO to go back with him for months now. I finally convinced him to sit down and have a serious talk with his boss and he did just that yesterday and his boss told him that once SO has finish renewing his passport to work up a savings to go back to Culinary school over in Canada and he will set him up a job while his in school. I dun’t know how long it will take but it something SO has been wanting for a long time now (from we first started dating almost 8 years ago). Right after that meeting another head chef told SO that they entered him in a mystery basket sou chef competition the prize is $500 and pretty much a promotion becoming a sou chef. They had him make two dishes from the top of his head not preparation or anything and the pics were amazing (wish I had them saved on my work computer). So proud of him no matter the outcome of these situations he has been my support pushing me and it’s so good to hear other people see what I do and are pushing him also.
Anyway just wanted to give an update on how waiting is doing for me if any other bees had any waiting news I’d love to hear it. Oh and if there are any Canadian bees reading any advice for a couple of island kids to know about the process for preparing to make a move like that so we can know what we’re getting ourselves into.