(Closed) Stole my colors!!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

How much do your guest lists overlap? I know you said that you don’t want the colors to be the same… but if it’s a scheme and a plan you love, is it going to be that big a deal on the actual day?

Post # 4
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1090 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

how about Alfred Angelo violet?

and that realllllly sucks! 🙁

Post # 5
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5797 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Use whatever color you like, no one is going to be scandalized by seeing a shade of purple at two weddings in a row.

That Bridesmaid or Best Man dress is adorable!

Post # 7
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5822 posts
Bee Keeper

You may as well use the same shade of purple.  No one will notice.  And if they do, they will think that violet or wisteria or royal purple are all the same color-purple.

Also, I wouldn’t share any details with this girl anymore.  If she is “stealing” all your ideas, then just keep her in the dark.  The nice thing is that since her wedding is before yours, you can change whatever you feel you need to after her wedding.

Post # 9
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5822 posts
Bee Keeper

Was it done intentionally?  Or is there a chance you both just like the same things?

Post # 10
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5110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

Well first dont tell her any more about your wedding lol.. Thats awful. Im sorry. Now I dont think that anyone will care if your color is the same. If that is what your heart is set on then do it. Just have different touches to your wedding. It could be better that her wedding is first 🙂 the little touches are what makes the wedding yours. You will get to see what she does and you can do your wedding to your taste and style without it looking like hers. 

Post # 11
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5093 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

You can do the same colors but still have things very different.  Last June, Fiance and I went to his cousin’s wedding.  It was my first time meeting his mom’s side of the family.  We got there, and I discovered that we actually had the exact same colors.  We’re not too worried about it, though.  Their wedding was a very modern outdoors one.  We’re having a super formal Venetian masquerade ball.  The colors are the same, but I doubt anyone will even notice.

Likewise, the other couple is getting married at home (I think), and you’re going to Jamaica.  That right there is such a big difference that the colors won’t even matter.  It’s like Marilyn Monroe and Miss Piggy.  They’re both blondes, but the hair color is not what people remember about them.  🙂

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