(Closed) Stop reconnecting with me!!! ;-)

posted 4 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
526 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Bebealways:  oh man, this happened to me! I was touched to hear from some people, but so many of them either implied or blatantly stated that they were expecting an invtation – I felt guilty and invited a bunch of them. Of course I had no choice but to extend plus ones, and now I have about a half a dozen total strangers coming to my wedding. I’m happy for my old friends, but I never in a million years expected to see them at my wedding, much less their SOs completely unknown to me. I know I may get torn apart for not being happy/gracious that people want to celebrate with me, but frankly it’s been a pain! At least that’s my experience. Hope it turns out better for you and you get whatever you prefer.

Post # 4
11274 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

I can only imagine. I coincidentally didn’t join FB until ten months after my wedding.  Although I have absolutely LOVED reconnecting with so many of my old friends, I have no idea what impact these reconnections may have had on my guest list if they had occurred pior to my wedding.

Post # 6
208 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Bebealways:  Lol, because that’s just the way life works. Always seems like you’re a day late & a dollar short my friend.


Maybe later on you could plan a casual part where you can invite more people. Something on the cheap like a barbecue, hotdog/smores roast & share video or slideshow of your wedding and reception with all the ppl you couldn’t afford to invite.

Money woes are nothing new, people get it. 😉

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