(Closed) Stop talking about it and got the proposal?

posted 13 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Did you stop talking about it and got the proposal?

    Yep. The moment I stopped he popped the question.

    Nope. I talked about it the entire time.

    Haven't figured this one out yet, still no ring.

  • Post # 33
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    655 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010 - Heron Hill Winery

    it’s understandable we just get caught up in the moment and are blinded by the prospect of a glittering ring on our finger that we often forget to think of what could be going on in our guys head…I know I never stopped to think what it all meant to him.  My Fiance had been in a long relationship prior to ours and I know she was the other women he had ever thought about marrying in his life.  Apparently they had always talked about their future together and marriage, etc.  Whenever I would go too far in bringing it up he would remind me he didn’t like talking about those things because he didn’t want to jinx us and that he was happy in the now.  I couldn’t relate b/c Fiance is the only man I thought and planned a future with, but looking back now I can see why he held back on the future talk.  I think the that with time passing and our relationship growing past the point of his priors he began to realize that this was it.Laughing

    Post # 35
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    54 posts
    Worker bee

    <<we often forget to think of what could be going on in our guys head…>>

    Please, someone, ANYONE tell me what is going on in their little heads!! DYING TO KNOW!!!!!!!!

    Post # 37
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Actually, the Fi stopped talking about it, he was the one who talked about it more than I did!  I knew something was up!  I was right, he proposed a month later!!

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