- Miss Emily Marie
- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
OK bees here is my current situation. SO and I have been together for 6 wonderful years. We just adopted a puppy 2 weeks ago, which is something we’ve been wanting to do for about 2 years. He asked me to “move-in” with him. I still have my own place until August and in August I am moving about an hour away to start my new job so we are “unofficially” living together until then.
My SO is a romantic man. Not in the ways that make you gag and want to vomit but in the things he does for me. For example I was having a frustrating day with the puppy and he left work 2 hours early and surprised me. I got to take a nap and a shower and have some “me-time” as he called it before he cooked me dinner…good dad i think yes.
Now in addition to the things he does for me to show me he loves me, he tells me all the time. However since I “moved-in” he has been saying things such as…
“I wish you didn’t have to move to _________, it’s going to be hard to plan our wedding long distance”
“If we aren’t married (not engaged but MARRIED) by this time next year we should get our own place”
“you are such a wonderful girlfriend, I can’t wait to marry you”
that takes “i love you” to a whole new level! He knows I’m dying to get engaged and married. We even went to a wedding 2 weeks ago and I didn’t say a word about us getting married (Mr. Bee I kept you in mind) and he brought it up! It’s killing me but I refuse to initiate the conversations about it.
Anyways tonight we are going to see Phantom of the Opera, we have shared a love of theater since we met and Phantom is one of our all time favorite shows and I am making us engagement chicken for dinner before-hand. It won’t happen tonight but hopefully soon.
Sorry this is so long. Thank god you girls are here because I’m going crazy not talking to him about it!