(Closed) Stopping the love makin’ prior to wedding day

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper

I personally don’t see the point of doing this on purpose, but we’ll probably be stopping the week prior since I’ll be on my period, haha.

Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think its a lovely idea – we are planning on doing a month too

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2008

I suggested this, not because I was super interested in it, but because I was just throwing it out there.  Fiance was appalled, lol.  It’s probably not for us, though I do see the appeal in some ways.  We’re taking the whole week of the wedding off from work and likely will be super exhausted so it’s probable that we won’t be having that much sex in the four or five days before the wedding.  Plus, even if you don’t happen to stop, think of how much more special and how intimate and romantic it will be knowing you’re having sex with your *husband* for the first time.  Chills!!  For us, stopping prior won’t make it any more special.  And we may have a few nights before the wedding having excited “we’re almost husband and wife” sex, which could also be nice and a little new and envigorating!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

we will be stopping…how long before…not sure…but we will be stopping.  The reason for us is both religious and jsut to have the actual excitement of doing it when we are finally man and wife.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Wait people don’t have sex on their wedding night. I think i’d be traumatized and think it like cursed our marriage.

I don’t plan on stopping… prolly just a week which we sometimes do anyway when we are exhausted during the week so its nothing new.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper

I don’t think we could stop even if we tried LOL

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

When we finally set the date, we’re going to stop having sex a year in advance. For me its just so I can have that honeymoon feeling. For him its religious.

 

I didnt even lose my virginity until 4 months ago (to him, of course) so I definitely know I can deal without it.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I don’t think we’ll stop, as it’s likely that we’ll be in a LDR until we’re married…and let’s be real…we miss each other WAY too much in between visits!!!!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I couldnt stop. If I go without sex I loose my drive and its hard to get back into it. Im not sure if we will have sex the night of the wedding either since I plan on being dead.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012 - Watch tower lodge, Black hawk state Park Rock Island, IL

we sat down and discussed this and decided 2 weeks before, just so our wedding night is a little extra special 🙂

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yeah, no.  We wouldn’t be able to hold out.

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

i think we will do 2 weeks

Post # 15
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My Fiance and I have stopped for almost 2 years now for religious reasons. 

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@naturalysam:  

Wait….you plan on being dead?

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