(Closed) straight, grown men who cuddle?

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Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

scarlettbegonias87:  me too! And the gag reel when they keep cracking up is even more hilarious!

Post # 17
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

scarlettbegonias87:  Darling Husband and I are both early 20s. We both agree that the two guys cuddling are 100% gay

Post # 19
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Busy bee

What you describe I personally don’t really think of as cuddling. Just seems like two people hanging out relaxing. When I think cuddling I think full on spooning lol. 

I see men put their arm around another shoulders all the time, male or female, regardless of culture or sexual orientation. I’ve worked in service and hospitality for a while, so it’s pretty common from what I’ve seen. I think having your feet up on someone is very similar in that aspect, though no one tends to put their feet IP in public spaces lol. 

Post # 20
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Helper bee

scarlettbegonias87:  I cuddel with my female friends all the time! We will frequnetly snuggle up on the couch or share blankets to watch movies. I have also taken naps right next to my best friends. Maybe I’m a wierdo. 

Also my brothers have been known to get affectionate/huggy with eachother. ESPECIALLY when they are drunk. I normally don’t think anything of it. 

Post # 21
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

scarlettbegonias87:  I do cuddle with my straight female friends. Not like full on spooning, but we all tend to be pretty damn cold so if we’ve watching a movie we’re probably all under a giant blanket. 

Fiance (who is straight) loves to cuddle me…buuuut I’m pretty sure he’d never cuddle another guy. Lol. I do have straight man friends who would do that though. 

I wouldn’t find anything wrong with it at all.

Post # 22
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

southsun:  This. 

 

I was definitely expecting something that was actually cuddling, not just an arm around or something, lol. The arm thing I’ve seen a ton. 

Post # 23
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

scarlettbegonias87:  I’m a straight, married woman and hell yea, I cuddle my 2 best girlfriends all the time! All 3 of us will still do girls night out and end up snuggled up in one bed at the end of the night. 

My husband would never cuddle anyone besides me though and definitely not his male friends. 

Post # 24
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Bumble bee

Watch a male sports game and see how much grown men touch each other. Hugs, pats on the back or butt, jumping on each other… I think it’s a very normal instinct to touch or get physically close to another person when you feel close and secure in the relationship. My husband and I joke that our male dog is secretly gay- he loves sitting on our laps and getting petted and kisses us often. Sexual touch and affectionate touch are different and unless two grown men are making out, I wouldn’t necessarily think they were gay just because they were close

Post # 25
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2014

I’ve never seen it outside of a joking situation. Yeah, straight guys will hug and slap each other and such, but not an extended snuggle. Fiance agrees that this is not the norm. I don’t snuggle my girlfriends. 

Post # 26
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I’ve got a few guy friends that have done that while hanging out. I don’t think it’s something they do regularly. Im in my early 20s and most of my friends are between 25-30 so maybe it’s something different. They’re comfortable with their sexuality. my Fiance and I personally don’t snuggle with anyone else besides our cat but his friends are more touchy feely. 

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Post # 27
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Hmm I never really saw that from straight guys unless they are joking around… even from girls it’s rare. Although I do cuddle with my sis when we watch movies at home or smth like that but that’s it.

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