(Closed) Strange feeling about DH\'s work colleague – am I just paranoid?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 346
81 posts
Worker bee

Annonnie89:  I asked my fiance because he works in an office, so I figured he would have a much better idea of officemate behavior/dynamics than I do. I work in a private home (I’m a nanny) with no coworkers so I had no frame of reference. 

Post # 347
941 posts
Busy bee

I feel so sorry that you are even going through this. Ive been there honey. I didn’t handle it well. But, I will tell you I should have trusted my gut. He cheated on me for months before I finally found out. I could have saved myself a lot of sleepless nights and heartache if I had just walked when I knew something was wrong. You seem like such a sweet person and are so undeserving of this. People arent just untrusting. something has to happen to get them to this point. If you have always been a little insecure he probably already knows that and is not helping by hiding shit and locking you out of his phone and facebook. Either way he’s an asshole. 

Post # 348
351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2000

I think maybe he wanted you to figure out the passcode (he obviously wasn’t being careful when you were looking) knowing you were going to look in the phone. Then he erased everything. So now he can say that you looked and nothing was there. Probably a long shot, but this guy sounds like a master manipulator.


Of course, none of this even matters if you continue to allow him to treat you this way. He may as well fuck her on the living room couch.

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