(Closed) Strange question

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: If you were the man in the relationship, would you have proposed already?
    Yes! I wouldn't want my lady in waiting! : (40 votes)
    56 %
    No, I would do it when the time was right. : (32 votes)
    44 %
  • Post # 3
    1566 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I would most definately proposed already!! Probably a few months ago!   I am fairly certain my SO won’t make me wait too much longer though!

    Post # 4
    140 posts
    Blushing bee

    I would have proposed when I got me pregnant….errrr…..yeah 😛

    Post # 5
    3587 posts
    Sugar bee

    I would have asked a long time ago. I’d look at myself and go, look at that woman, smart, self sufficient and beautiful, WHY would I let her get upset enough and irritated enough to even think of leaving? You know a man with good sense will snap her up!

    @KittenB: THIS one too!LOL

    Post # 6
    1368 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    OMG, what a simple yet thoght-proviking question!!!

    I voted for No, When the time is right… but I am a “DO IT ALREADY-Impatient” bee myself…

    To be honest I have NO idea what I’d be thinking and doing if it’s the other way around(if I was a guy with a typical male characteristic). But, I am pretty sure if I were a typical guy in a serious relationship, I would be making an effort to communicate with the SO even if I wasn’t ready “just yet”. (I hope).

    Post # 7
    1543 posts
    Bumble bee

    @KittenB: and @MsMamaBear: I’m right there with ya, ladies! Lol!

    Umm, yeah, we’d be married for about a year now, if I’d been proposing to myself. ???   O.o   You know what I mean Wink

    Post # 8
    659 posts
    Busy bee

    If I was the man I would have proposed like last year.

    Post # 9
    658 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I would have proposed a few months ago if I were him. I’ve actually thought about this before and don’t think it’s a weird question at all – quite the contrary, I find it very fascinating!

    Post # 10
    1297 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    ABSOLUTELY – like a year or more ago. We have been ready for a long time. 

    Post # 11
    1941 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    My inital reaction is to say “YES!” and give lots of wonderful examples of how I would have done it sooner, but in reality? Nope.

    I love our proposal story, Love. And I wouldn’t want to change it for anything 🙂 Yes, we were together over three years before he proposed, and it will be almost five by the time we get married, but that’s perfectly okay with me.

    Post # 12
    2893 posts
    Sugar bee

    My guy has already said he intended to do it a while ago but his planning skills aren’t exactly the best and acquiring a ring has been a huge pain. It’s been right for a while. I would have proposed as well by this point

    Post # 13
    7403 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Nope, I would take my time. Our timeline has been a long journey but its going to worth it in the end.

    Post # 14
    1418 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @WineAndCupcakes: I will have about the same timeline!!! We will be together three years in march, but I’m fairly certain we will get engaged this month. We will most likely be engaged for two years.

    Post # 15
    1091 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2018

    I would have proposed about a year ago but would have pushed for a long engagement.

    Post # 16
    1729 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I would have proposed a few weeks ago. 🙂

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