- 5 years ago
So I went shopping with SO’s mom today. This isn’t unusual given that we have shopped together before. We were looking for dresses for SO’s daughter for an Xmas party and his mom picks up a white dress and goes “Oh! This is pretty, it would make a pretty flowergirl dress.”
I stopped what I was doing and looked at her for a second and kinda blinked before saying. “Oh that won’t happen for awhile.” To which she replied “Oh, I know, I know. I’m just saying.” But she gave me this odd little smile and what appeared to be a twinkle in her eye and put it back down. (I may be seeing shit! I’m blaming it on ring obsession).
Also, SO the other day (after being away from me for a week) turns to me and says “Well I think it should be in early 2014.” And I told him, “Oh I was thinking late 2014 to early 2015. I want a little over a year to plan.” And he got quiet and said “Oh.” The proposal was suppose be be forthcoming in Spring of 2013. But he’s encouraging looking at wedding stuff now..I’ve been trying to stay away from it as I want his mom and my mom’s help, and I am not saying ANYTHING to them until after he proposes.
He also mentioned that he’d talk to his parents and my mom before he pops the question.
Anyone have an SO talk about/try and plan wedding stuff before you even got officially engaged. I feel nuts bringing stuff up to him about wedding stuff without the official announcement, but he tells me “No, no! Not crazy. I love you, and I am gonna marry you. It’s good that you are looking.”
-.- This is not helping me with the shut up pact.