(Closed) Strangely feeling blue…(waiting/babies)

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1075 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Awwe…don’t get too down.  But I hear ya.  To be honest, though I hate to admit this, I get rather shy too when I’m around people I don’t know.  I’m the girl that slouches in the corner some where to not be seen. 


I sooooooo wish my SO would propose to me already also.  I think it’s more of a financial thing right now though.  Which I just don’t get!!  Just because he proposes to me now doesn’t mean we have to get married RIGHT AWAY!!

Post # 4
1602 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i definately understand about being with people you don’t know, especially when your SO does know them… no matter how much he tries to involve you, ultimately you will end up in a conversation where you don’t know the context and you will feel left out.

my SO works at a kids camp, and has for many years. his brother and sister do, and all his friends do. when i get together with them every other sentance is “the ranch this…” or “the ranch that…” SO IRRITATING.

but i’ll definately be thinking of you on sunday! particularily that no one makes it awkward regarding the whole “ex mrs..” stuff – that would suck, so my thoughts go with you!

Post # 5
603 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

YES definitely..I often times feel so silly introducing Boyfriend or Best Friend as just that..my Boyfriend or Best Friend.  I know Im not old in the least bit (25!) BUT I am a grown woman and so is Boyfriend or Best Friend…should I start calling him man-friend? LOL…anyways, I LOVE being around my pregnant friends..it fascinates me. I feel sometimes like I’m falling behind b/c Im not married, not even engaged, or having children yet. Its rough..but just remember “Good things come to those who wait!” 

Post # 6
1106 posts
Bumble bee

I am right there with you.. This weekend Mr. Tee and I will be going to a wedding and I am so not looking forward to being introduced as his “girlfriend”.. I am really getting tired of the LD and all I want to do is be with him.. be his wife and start our life together. Waiting blues do suck.. very very badly!

Post # 7
474 posts
Helper bee

@fuschiasparkles: There was a thread about this a while back. I just call Boyfriend or Best Friend by his first name and have had multiple occasions where people just assume we are engaged or married.


I want to take the line from Carrie in Sex and the City where Carrie calls her new man her “lover”

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