(Closed) Stranger helped me during a storm, would be weird if I asked him out?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 182
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Helper bee

Oh my goodness, that’s so exciting!! Definitely the most romantic thing I’ve heard in a long time!! Yayyy….!!! I’m so glad you got the courage to ask him out. He sounds like he likes you, for sure !! Yeah I’m sure he was busy around the holidays. And generally don’t freak out if he doesn’t text/call immediately, just try to stay calm and don’t rush. I really hope things work out for you guys!! (The touchy-ness is a sure sign he’s interested and finds you attractive! Hehe Otherwise he’d keep his distance and be just polite and friendly.) Fingers crossed on my toes too!! :))) And Happy New Year!! 

Post # 183
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Girl you are hilarious. He’s throwing you more “I like you” signs than I can count! Don’t worry, relax, he LIKES you!! I’m guessing you guys are going to be texting soon (if you aren’t already) about the next time you guys will meet up. Congrats!

By the way, I think you’re now required to update this post with all milestones you take with this guy. We’re clearly engrossed in your story. 😉

Post # 184
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Sorry but this still sounds made up to me. Like a poor attempt at chiclit.

On the off chance that this is real, chill the eff out. Text him and for God’s sake go get your car

Post # 185
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

aw I love this, didn’t see this thread at the start so it’s always nice to have an update. hope you have more lovely dates in 2017!

Post # 186
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2021 - City, State

I love this so much 

Post # 188
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Newbee

Any news 🙂 xx when’s your next date I want details haha any romantic pictures in the snow hehe  xx

Post # 189
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Blushing bee

More updates!!!

Post # 190
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Following for updates!

Post # 191
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Bumble bee

Yay so glad you had a great first date and it sounds like there is a potential for future dates. Very excited for you bee!

Post # 192
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Blushing bee

Aw so exciting 🙂 im also following for updates. Wish you luck and don’t worry about not texting yet, things look good so far

Post # 195
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: City, State

Ahh I don’t like your new update!  Commenting to follow in hopes of a turn around of the situation!! Maybe he found this post and got freaked out that so many strange women are so invested in this haha. 

Post # 196
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Honey Beekeeper

I wouldn’t give up all hope just yet. He was out of town and it’s not impossible there was a technical issue with him sending texts or he could think he responded but the text never went through. 

Personally, I would not have kept texting him. 

Post # 197
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Bumble Beekeeper

Ugh, I’ll never understand why guys pull this shit. If I go on a first date and I’m not feeling it, I would never excitedly chat to the person about what we could do on our second date…wtf? Hard to know of course but I’m guessing he’s just flaky. Maybe there’s someone else in his life and he decided to focus on that…who knows…but I wouldn’t get too down over someone who sends insane mixed signals and then just ghosts you. Other fish in the pond!

Post # 198
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Bumble Beekeeper

oops duplicate post.

Post # 199
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Your update crushed my soul. 😭

Post # 200
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

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beach_lover89 :  boo to the nmew update! That sucks. Maybe he is busy yada yada, but it is pretty wrong to talk like you are into the idea of another date then ghost out. Plenty more strangers in the storm.

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