- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2012
after we got married for a while things really picked up in the bedroom, and I found I could really focus on intimacy. I felt beautiful and loved and protected and basically in the right mental state for gettin’busy .
Is it the same for others, that when you have something stressful on your mind, mildly upsetting, or just anything much on your mind, your libido is lacking?
I have a fairly stressful job and we actually live in an apartment rented to us on the property of my work, so I don’t feel like I get a clean seperation at the end of the day. I have found that during the work week I often have trouble wanting to have sex, whereas on the weekend and especially while on vacation (no matter the length) I am much more interested in sex.
Have any of you struggled with this? How do you deal? As a newlywed, I really don’t want to already be struggling with intimacy, and I wish I felt like doing it far more often!
I have found that having him give me a massage can help get me in a restful mood, but on the other hand I don’t want it to be all up to him: initiating, taking care of all the foreplay etc..
Ideas? Similar struggles?