(Closed) Stress and worry…I can’t help it!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Me to……

I am a true “worry wart”!

So annoying!

But I just can’t stop!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

In times like this I always use the motto…

“Prepare for the worst.. Hope for the best”

Because I am the same way, I over think everything and sometimes even worry myself about how far out there my thoughts and anxiety can go. 

I also have similiar issue as your mom, had a hysterectomy in Dec 2011 because my biopsy they did came back abnormal and showed I had complex atypia hyperplasia (dont think I spelled that right).  And even though it was not cancer at that time, 33% of women do develop it and considering my family histoy (more than 4 women has/had woman related cancer and have passed) I did not want to take that chance because my mind went over board.

Keeping the fears/worries to yourself helps because its easy to forget when youre not going through it that other people sometimes don’t understand why you’re not panicing or why youre so calm.

Hope that makes sense.  It’s scary watching those you love go through something scary.  But being someone who was also in a similar situation it helped a lot that my family wasn’t overly panicing infront of me because if they would have I would have been in a worse place

Post # 7
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1371 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Me too!  Especially when it concerns my parents.  I dread the day I get a phone call, I’ve been blessed that they are in good health.

Sending prayers to you and your mom. 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@PoeticDoveInLA:  “Prepare for the worst.. Hope for the best”


This is exactly what I do. I worry about everything. I forgot who said it, but it makes me feel a lot better when I’m a mess…”Worrying isn’t a way to prepare for the future.”

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