(Closed) Stress Management… In need of work/wedding stress advice…

posted 6 years ago in The Lounge
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@ElissaBee:  You need to prioritize. Write a list and figure out what has to be done, what can wait a bit longer, and what things would be nice to be done, but definitely not necessary.

Try to put things into perspective. Yes, a wedding is a huge event, but in reality it’s ONE day of your life and if a few minor things go wrong then who cares. It’s about 2 people being joined. As long as your fiance shows up, you’re good to go lol.

Also try to worry only about things you can control. I try to do this myself. I tend to bog myself down with what-ifs and hypotheticals that get me nowhere. If you can’t control it, don’t worry about it!

Delegate if you can. Can a bridesmaid, friend, family member etc. help? Can you hire a cleaning lady for the housework?

Also keep in mind that the finish line is getting close… this too shall pass.

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