(Closed) Stress#anxious

posted 6 years ago in July 2013
Post # 3
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461 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I would say i am the exact opposite of you. I was not at all excited about the wedding until about a month ago. And then all of a sudden it was like I get to marry my best friend soon. Holy cow we need to throw an awesome party. Better start buckling down and getting ready. Haha.

I honestly try not to think about it every day. I’d say maybe once or twice a week I do something wedding related. This way i don’t get burnt out. I try to involve the FH too cause seeing him excited, makes me excited.

It’s been tough because like you we are paying for everything ourselves. I just got the stamps for the save the dates because we didn’t have the extra money to spend for it. So when I got those bad boys, it felt so great to put them on and then send them out.

I’d suggest making a list of everything you have to do, breaking it down into what has to be down and by when and then trying not to overload on wedding stuff each day or week.

And just remember in the end, you get to marry your wonderful Fiance and that’s all that really matters ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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3092 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@drivingmissdaisy85:  I definitely felt that way and probably will again.  We just hit 4 months and I’m feeling like loose ends are finally started to get tied up.  I’m ready to get this thing done ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
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351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@drivingmissdaisy85:  I’m in your boat! I’m to the point where I’m like “why does everyone want so much money?!?” And I always feel like I’m forgetting something. When this is all over I’m going to be rich and bored!

Post # 8
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351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@drivingmissdaisy85:  Just try to take a step back and breathe. This is probably something you have looked forward to for a long time. Make checklists of everything that needs to be done so you have a visual idea what needs to be done. From there, spread your time out but allow a break in between each task. I personally did this and it helped so much. I’m much more comfortable with what needs to be done and when ๐Ÿ™‚

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