- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
….maybe it’s that time of year. I’m 6 months out and I’m reading post after post on domestic violence which scares the shit out of me, posts where people have come here to critisise those weddings they’ve been to which didn’t live up to their expectations, i’m getting derogatory comment after shitty comment about my dress, Fiance can’t be interested in anything wedding related because we’re still 5/6 months out and…i’ve had enough. When was wedding planning supposed to be so depressing?
I’m so terrified that, after planning so hard, people are going to be disappointed in my wedding for things I haven’t planned for…..that it’s not an open bar (they’re getting 4 free drinks during wedding meal but reception is cash bar)…i’m sad to see people criticising cash bars on other posts as now i’m wondering if i’m not ‘hosting well enough’….I can’t afford an open bar but don’t want people to be denied the opportunity to drink if they’re willing to pay for it…I’ve so much school debt but have to pay for Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses….I’m getting the simplest wedding band I can afford so I can afford other things for the wedding….yeah basically I’m feeling sorry for myself. I feel like screaming at people.
What’s pissing you off about your planning?