(Closed) Stressed, confused, emotional…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

It sounds like you need to take some time to yourself without trying to reconcile the desires of your Fiance vs family.  No one will fault you for politely listening to their opinion and then doing something completely different.  Practically speaking, you aren’t going to get a fast (i.e. soon), inexpensive, and traditional wedding in NYC (you said it yourself). So I think you should choose 2 of those 3 things and work from there. Like, if you really want to be married soon, and traditionally, you could possibly go outside the city, or make it work with fewer guests (I think you could still invite quite a few, the response rate might be lower if your wedding date is in Jan or Feb 2013).  Or, you could have an inexpensive wedding that happens soon but is not traditional. It sounds like you’re stressed because you have to give up something & you don’t know what is your priority to keep.  Your wedding will be wonderful because it’s your wedding, you don’t have to have all the things you think you need.

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