(Closed) Stressed out and feels like nobody cares

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m excited for you!!! Congrats!! Sometimes when you get engaged you have to keep these things in mind:

A) Almost EVERY girl wants to be in your shoes. So your Maid/Matron of Honor is probably more than a little jealous. Thankfully she seems to be trying her best to put on a happy face. My best friend (also my MOH) just got broke up with her Boyfriend or Best Friend a few months before I got engaged (they would have probably gotten engaged around when I did if they hadn’t broken up…) and even though I know how hard it is for her to be in “wedding mode” with me, she’s tried very hard not to let that ruin things. Try telling your Maid/Matron of Honor how much you appreciate her, spend some occasional no-wedding-talk-allowed “girl time” with her and see if that helps!

B) No one is as excited as you are about your wedding. After a while, most people get sick of hearing about it. As harsh as it is, it’s probably the most true. :/ You just gotta deal with it and try to keep in mind that you are about to marry the man of your dreams and try and stay positive. πŸ™‚

C) Weddings are hard for parents. As excited as your mom probably is, it’s not easy coming to terms with your daughter moving out (Maybe your case?) and beginning a life of her very own. I know my own mom goes through a whirlwind of emotions just about every day. πŸ™‚ I’m sure your mom is going through that as well. If you really feel like it’s an issue, talk to her. Maybe not “Mom, why aren’t you more excited?!” but something that allows her to express her true feelings, whatever they may be. πŸ™‚ Getting her involved can help too. πŸ™‚ 

 

Good luck with everything! I really hope I have helped, even if it’s just a little! Congrats again!! Enjoy being engaged, because trust me, it just FLIES by. πŸ™‚

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