- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
I just need a little bit of advice. Im getting married in June 2014. I was going to get married at a cheap little building in the country only because I knew that I could afford it without breaking the bank. My sister-in-law then advised to keep my eyes open and showed me a winery located in the same town. I fell in love with it. Without telling her and my brother how much I liked it, they offered to help pay for it. So of course, wanting my dream wedding, I accepted. Now my mother and my only sister are very upset about it. They feel that it is not her place to be. What they dont understand is that its not just my sister-in-law, its my brother that wants to help also. So needless to say, it has turned into a huge batter between the three of them. I want to have my wedding at the winery ( and I get that its not up to them, its my choice) but Im sooo worried that once my wedding day comes, its just going to be drama. I have even considered saying forget the wedding of my dreams and just eloping that way I dont have to worry about anyone starting drama on the most important day of my life. Could someone please help me and give me some reassurance of what to do? I am so worried about starting a family feud by choosing the winery because I dont want that. But I do want to have a beautiful wedding..