(Closed) stressful friendships…..

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Wow this sounds like a really bad situation– but it is SO not your place to get involved. B needs to man up and kick her out. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

If you want to lose a friend say something to him… But otherwise he is a big boy and I’m sure if he has really had enough he would say something/ pay for her to leave his house

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

i don’t think it’s your place to say anything, but i also don’t think i’d be friends with this girl…she doesn’t sound like a very nice person!

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

@Mrs. Meowerson: agreed. 

 

The thing is… if you get involved you’ll probably lose her as a friend. I guess personally I wouldn’t care because she doesn’t sound like someone I’d want to be friends with and thus I’d probably tell him to get her out. But you seem to want to keep her as a friend, and I don’t think you have an OBLIGATION to tell him anything because he’s a big boy and he should be able to take care of his own relationships. 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

She sounds really annoying. Maybe you can offer to drive there and pick her up? Or give her $ for the bus? Has she actually told YOU that she wants to leave or are you hearing all this from your friend?

You can always call her and jokingly say that you are going to save her from herself and come rescue her.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Of course, but make it clear that she is on her own if she does it again. Seriously, who does that??

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

If you really think he’s going to be harmed (emotionally, or however), then I think you can say something gently–but ONCE only. Then he can do what he wants with that information, which is probably nothing. But as others have pointed out, he’s an adult, and people tend not to believe bad things about people they’re interested in until they see it for themselves.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper

I kind of agree with the above posters. This girl doesn’t sound like someone I would want to be friends with. I would probably tell B what was up and let him make the decision if he can get her out of his house or not. Once you’ve told him what is going on, you’ve done your deed, and i wouldn’t take it any further.

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