(Closed) Stressing over where everyone is going to stay.

posted 7 years ago in Destination Weddings
Post # 3
450 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Tell them to hire their own travel agent. You have enough going on with the wedding planning. Unless you are a travel agent by trade. If they get with a travel agent, at least that person could have contacts to work with in the area to help with the request.

Post # 4
7385 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Honestly the only person you should be worrying about its your mom. Well if you uncle/aunt are on limited budget like her, fine look out for them too. I agree with PP let a travel agent deal with it.

You’ve done enough. Tell your in-laws what you found, if they don’t find it acceptable, tell them to GOOGLE it. You can’t win. Good forbid there is an issue later down the line with the spot that YOU find, guess who is going to get the blame if something goes wrong. Disengage now.

Post # 5
69 posts
Worker bee

I agree with the other posters. I would tell your fiance to let them know that you were not able to find the accomodation that fits them and give them the name and number to several rental companies and/or travel agents. It is not your job to plan their vacation….you are planning your wedding. I would be really nice about it, but just let them know or have your fiance let them know since they are his parents.

There is no reason for them to be so demanding! Just see what you can do to help your mom out, and maybe your aunt and uncle as well.

Let the in laws find their own, then they will have no choice but to compromise. I mean, it’s not like they aren’t going to come to the wedding if they don’t find exactly what they want!!

Post # 6
1697 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I agree, it’s not your problem ( and i don’t mean that in a mean way at all) I just know that planning the wedding is stressful and they should understand that.

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