(Closed) Strip Club – vent/rant thingee (Very long and rambly)

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
516 posts
Busy bee


That’s tough.  Sorry you feel badly!

You didn’t ask for advice, so I won’t offer any, but hopefully the smoke will clear soon and I’m sure everything will be alright.

One thing is for sure- you obviously have a fiance who cares a lot about your feelings!  That’s wonderful!


Post # 4
235 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

The thing is, nothing CAN happen inside because one of the biggest rules in a strip club is no touching the strippers!

Worst case scenario, a lap dance. Where you still cannot touch the stripper.

My Fiance did end up at a strip club for part of his stag do, but his friends didn’t buy him a lap dance, they paid for him to stand up on stage and get chased around and beat with whips by his friends and the strippers! (Apparently, he wasn’t supposed to tell me, but I saw his back and went “WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED?!”) Honestly, they all agree the main event was going to…get this…a butter museum during the day!

There is really nothing to be jealous about. He’s not in love with the stripper, he’s not marrying the stripper, he’s in love with you, marrying you, thinks you’re the most beautiful girl in the world! And aside from his creepy friend, most men don’t lust after strippers. Fiance shuddered when I asked if they were pretty strippers, they were quite the opposite.

It’s very sweet of him to do a plan B but if he’s being sulky, well, I’d feel bad too. Maybe see if after talking to hive, if you feel better about plan A, suggesting he go back to that plan?

If you were worried about him cheating, you wouldn’t/shouldn’t be getting married. So I don’t really get what else he could be pressured into? Remember, no touching is allowed! So there’s really nothing that can happen. Maybe practice your own lap dance to spring on him the next day, and I bet he’d like that way better than any lap dance a stripper could ever give him!

Post # 5
151 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I wrote a thread on the subject of bachelor party strip clubs from a guy’s perspective, you can find it here. I’m not sure if it will help you, but I tried to explain why I think it is so tough for many guys to deal with this issue. Maybe that will give you insight into some of the pressure that your particular Flower Girl might be going through.


The topic ‘Strip Club – vent/rant thingee (Very long and rambly)’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors