(Closed) Strip clubs

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa

tessadub:  I guess I just don’t get the point. I don’t mind him looking at boobs, but that’s free on the internet, ha ha. Not okay with lap dances, and that seems to be the real draw of the strip club, so I just don’t really get why a guy would spend money just to go have some drinks and look at boobs. *shrug*

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

Strip clubs don”t bother me at all. Darling Husband and I have gone together, and even gotten a private dance. It doesn’t bother me if he goes with his guy friends. It’s all in good fun.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2014

I think a bunch of grown men sitting around drinking and oogling at boobs is gross and, quite frankly, pathetic. Like gingerkitten I don’t see the point, unless you are trying to get your rocks off with a lap dance (which I wouldn’t be ok with). 

 

ETA: My husband has been to a couple strip clubs with his guy friends since we’ve been together. It’s not really his thing, so he wouldn’t ever seek it out. I don’t get mad or forbid him to go though. 

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 6 months ago by  SithLady.
Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

TBH I don’t like the idea of someone spending $ on strip clubs/boobs/naked women when it’s so readily available for free (mostly talking about myself, but also the internet). My Fiance doesn’t need to finance this girls med school (or whatever she needs the $ for).

I also believe prostitution should be legal, but wouldn’t be ok with my fiance doing that either.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

I wouldn’t say I’m “cool” with it–I mean, what good can come from naked (or mostly naked, depending on the state) women dancing around a mere couple of feet from one’s significant other? I know others disagree, but I never could get to that point of “Yeah, sure–that’s ok” when thinking about my guy getting all excited over another woman–a nearly naked one, no less. I always like to feel like number one and when I am forced to think about my guy getting hot and bothered (possibly) over another woman, well…it makes me feel like less than number one! It makes me feel….blah.

That being said, I understand it’s a common rite of passage for 21st birthdays, bachelor parties, etc. If my Darling Husband got invited to such a thing I wouldn’t be as jazzed about it as if he were invited to, say, an afternoon of paintball or an evening at a casino. But I DO trust him. So if he got invited I’d not go nuts having obsessive thoughts over it. I’m a little lucky because he doesn’t even like strip clubs. He hasn’t gone in the 3 years we’ve been together.

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper

It is just a naked lady. He has seen them before meeting me and after. It is only a body. The ladies are only after money. Meh, its boring. He finds it entertaining, not sexual. He can go have fun. Whateves

I’m sorry- wht is the point of this post? To spark a needless debate

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa

SithLady:  Right? Can you imagine it in another context? A bunch of dudes sitting around a computer screen googling boobie pictures together… lol!

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

tessadub:  asking this kind of question never ends well. Plus it really is pointless. It’s like asking if anyone else hates tomatoes and why. tomatoes are totally cool with some people, some people only like them in certain ways and others just hate them altogether. But one person liking tomatoes has no bearing on whether or not someone else does or doesn’t or their reasoning for feeling the way they do. So why even “discuss” such things? if your arrangement on strip clubs works for you and your partner then let it be. This topic has been blown to shreds on the bee many many times…. but good luck with this thread and the whole “keep it nice” thing ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Darling Husband has gone twice in our 10 years together. Both times for bachelor parties. I never worry bc I know he’s way too cheap to buy a lapdance…or stay too long somewhere with overpriced beer.

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