(Closed) Strip clubs. Bachelor parties. What really goes on.

• Diana_
• 2 years ago

• Wedding: April 2018

Happilymarried12 :  I am so grateful for your post today. I needed to hear this to remind myself to keep high standards for myself and the people I keep around me. I can’t possibly marry someone who would be willing to cheat on me on the grounds of “it was a bachelor party”. 

I always had a feeling that the “You have to trust your man” and the “You need to be cool” arguments were a device to manipulate us into caving and marrying men who would put us through a lot of hurt.

It is a deeply hurtful tradition and I am glad we finally got an insider to weigh in. 

Thank you again!