- 9 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
What people do in their own relationship is their business. If you don`t want your man going to strip clubs that your issue.So why make assumptions and judgmental statements about others who happen to disagree. Some of the comments about trusting your man has me also pausing! What is wrong with that? if you don’t trust your Fi why are you getting married to him?
Also the tone towards strippers, these men aren
t victims they know what they are getting into they walk into an establishment, where they know they are paying to see naked women dance. They are in control of their wallets, if a stripper is a good businesswoman she going to push her sales and try to make as much money and you know what props to her, Im sure she has her bills to pay like everyone else.
I think where my Fi goes and who he is with is irrelevant, he is in control of himself and should know what situations to avoid, when to to walk away. So I don`t care what permissible in that environment I place any and all blame solely on his shoulders should something happen which I doubt it will.
Lets also give some of these guys credit, these threads make them sound like simple minded sex starved fools who have zero self control.