(Closed) Strip Clubs…? (POLL)

posted 5 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Strip Clubs?
    He goes and I'm okay with it. : (17 votes)
    6 %
    He would like to go but I'm not okay with it. : (7 votes)
    2 %
    I'm okay with him going but he doesn't want to. : (69 votes)
    23 %
    He doesn't want to and I wouldn't be okay with it if he did. : (135 votes)
    45 %
    He goes, but I'm not really okay with it : (15 votes)
    5 %
    He use to go but I'm not okay with it anymore : (7 votes)
    2 %
    We go together! : (26 votes)
    9 %
    The subject of strip clubs has never come up. : (21 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 31
    Member
    93 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    MrsA44:  i’m with you.  i trust my husband completely, but i just think the idea of him going to a place to see another woman naked goes against what i believe in.  i should be the only naked woman he sees and vice versa.

     

    Post # 32
    Member
    1848 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    Earlier the relationship, I would have had a problem. Now? I don’t really care. He doesn’t want to go though. 

    Post # 33
    Member
    94 posts
    Worker bee

    I trust my fiancée to not even put himself in that situation.

    Post # 34
    Member
    9818 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    My Darling Husband has no desire to go.  I really wouldn’t mind if he went once and while (like with a group of friends or something) but I would have a problem if he wanted to go every other weekend!  But he doesn’t like them so there is really no point.  I mean, Darling Husband went to VEGAS for his bachelor party thing and there were still no strip clubs or naked women involved.

    I have been to plenty of them with friends in groups so I don’t really have much of an issue with it.  We went once together (as part of a large group party).  I think that was the last time either of us went!

    While I had fun going to them when I was younger we don’t hardly even go to bars anymore so a strip club would be at the very end of my list of things worth doing…

    So I would vote for the 3rd option as long as it wasn’t a frequent thing (so like for bachelor parties or group outtings and such).

    Post # 35
    Member
    572 posts
    Busy bee

    We went to a strip club on Valentines day together. I saw him with ass and whatever else jiggling around inches from his face and I just sipped my beer. I got my own private dances too… It was soooo much fun! Can’t wait to go again!

    Post # 36
    Member
    901 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Neither of us is okay with the other going, so we don’t.

    We opted out of bachelor/bachelorette parties because we knew his brother would organize something involving a strip club.  Instead of making it some big deal, it was easier to just forego it altogether. 

     

    Post # 37
    Member
    7905 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I told Darling Husband it would be ok if he wanted to go to a strip club as part of his bachelor celebrations, but he declined. He’s more of a gun and beer enthusiast. I suppose I don’t know if my response would have changed if he indeed did want to go to strip clubs though. 

    Post # 38
    Member
    1770 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    If my husband wanted to see that all he would have to do is come home… lol this has never come up for us.

    Post # 39
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    3611 posts
    Sugar bee

    My Fiance has been before (prior to us dating or my even knowing him), but he didn’t enjoy it and doesn’t want to go again. His exact words were that it was awkward and depressing. It’s never come up in the course of our relationship.

    What’s with all these threads about porn and strip clubs lately?

    Post # 40
    Member
    784 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2016

    BlondeeBee:  You really didn’t have an option for me. It is not the subject has never come up it is just that an instance for him to go has never happened. If he came up and said, I am going with so and so to X club next weekend, I would be fine with it. If he asked me if I wanted to come along, I would. 

    Post # 41
    Member
    490 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Darling Husband used to go with one of his friends pretty regularly before we met.  Since than he’s gone about a handful of times, he went for his own bachelor party as well, though he admitted it was the last thing he wanted to do but it was the only thing is best man wanted to do the whole night.  I don’t mind Darling Husband going occassionaly but I’m not a big fan of table dances, lap dances, private dances or hooter shooters.  I’ve been to watch guys dance and Darling Husband is actually not comfortable with me going.  The rules with male strippers tend to be much more relaxed and he say’s he’s not comfortable with another guy touching me or slapping his junk across my face.  Fair enough, so our boundaries are yes to going and watching but no to any of the other activities they offer at the club.

    Post # 42
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    4698 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I’m fine with them because I have no valid reasons not to be. I trust my husband and I know him, strippers aren’t his thing.. So if he were to end up at one for whatever reason, it wouldn’t be a big deal.

    With that being said, he doesn’t frequent them nor express any interest in going to them anymore. He’s been in the past and we’ve been together but, at this stage in the game both of us would rather go somewhere less trashy and have drinks that are at least worth their way-too-high price tags.

    Post # 43
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    50 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    This isn’t really an issue for us because he has no desire to go (or at least that’s what he tells me). But my Fiance is going to Washington to visit his brother with his other brother and dad for his bachelor party. I think there will be camping invovled. So we are not the typical couple. But I wouldn’t be okay with a strip club. I think the only person my Fiance should see half naked is me.

    Post # 44
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    2969 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    We’ve both gone to strip clubs, but actually never together. 

    I think a stripper in a hotel room or private residence is a little different and I’m not sure how I would feel about that. 

    My Fiance hasn’t gone to the rippers since his cousins bachelor party in Vegas, he said the dancers there make it depressing to see the dancers here.

    Post # 45
    Member
    656 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Darling Husband hates strip clubs, even with parties and groups of people… its just not his thing. We would go to them when we were younger because we had friends who worked there in various jobs, and he just kind of grew out of it. He never really saw the appeal anyway. It’s usually me who thinks it will be fun and am convincing him when other people we know want to go. 

    But knowing hes not into them makes me even more comfortable with the fact of he might go to one without me with strong convincing of his buddies… and that’s fine. I think I would be upset about him going to strip clubs if he was obsessed with the idea of going or thought it was a “get out of jail free” card for doing things he normally wouldn’t do- which is how I think a lot of men view it.

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