Post # 61
I’m not okay with it. Honestly, you have no idea whether the women in those places are there voluntarily and that they aren’t being exploited. I feel the same about other types of economic exchanges for sexual behavoirs.
Plus, personally I wouldn’t want my SO going to get turned on by another person when he could come to me!
Post # 62
I told my fiance if he really wanted to go to a strip club for his bachelor party I am 100 percent totally fine with it. It’s his last night as a single guy and I trust him 100 percent. My fiance is a great guy and I have no reason not to trust him. He has told me he has never been to one so I don’t see what the harm in it.
Post # 63
My fi has really ever gone for bachelor parties. I mean he has fun but doesn’t go any other time. If it was other times, I would be upset.
Post # 64
I voted we go together, but only because I am only ok with it if I go with him. I am not a fan of him going without me. Although, I wouldn’t flip out if he was out with friends and they ended up going to a strip club, it just would not be my top option.
Post # 65
BlondeeBee: My husband basically goes if its a bachelor party and thats part of the plan. He did not go for his own bachelor party because he’s not really into it. I dont really care about him going, I would prefer if he didnt have a lap dance, but honestly, I don’t want to know if he did. I trust him and I know he’s not into strippers. He’s pretty OCD so I’m pretty sure he thinks strip clubs are just dirty and gross.
Post # 66
I trust my husband but no he is not going to a strip club.
he has no reason to surround himself with naked women that’s not me. Nope. Ain’t happenin. I’m not insecure either btw, I just wont let that filth into my marriage
Post # 67
It hasn’t come up since we’ve been together but I know he’s been in the past with his friends. I’m generally fine with it, I trust him so it’s a non issue really. He hasn’t expressed any interest in them since we’ve met so I don’t know whether he’s still interested in going to them.
For the bees who are not ok with their SOs going to strip clubs what happens if they are invited to a bachelor party where a strip club is on the agenda? Do your SOs just decline those invites or do they go along to the weekend but go home before the strip club? Just curious – I’d imagine most guys, whether they’re into strip clubs or not would just go along with the crowd especially if it was the bachelor party of a good friend, no?
Post # 68
I answered that I’m ok with it but he doesn’t want to go anyway.
Maybe if it was a regular event I’d feel different but if it wouldn’t bother me at all if he was just going for a bachelor party/birthday/stag