(Closed) Strip Clubs…? (POLL)

posted 5 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Strip Clubs?
    He goes and I'm okay with it. : (17 votes)
    6 %
    He would like to go but I'm not okay with it. : (7 votes)
    2 %
    I'm okay with him going but he doesn't want to. : (69 votes)
    23 %
    He doesn't want to and I wouldn't be okay with it if he did. : (135 votes)
    45 %
    He goes, but I'm not really okay with it : (15 votes)
    5 %
    He use to go but I'm not okay with it anymore : (7 votes)
    2 %
    We go together! : (26 votes)
    9 %
    The subject of strip clubs has never come up. : (21 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 61
    Member
    3199 posts
    Sugar bee

    I’m not okay with it. Honestly, you have no idea whether the women in those places are there voluntarily and that they aren’t being exploited. I feel the same about other types of economic exchanges for sexual behavoirs. 

    Plus, personally I wouldn’t want my SO going to get turned on by another person when he could come to me! 

    Post # 62
    Member
    2425 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    I told my fiance if he really wanted to go to a strip club for his bachelor party I am 100 percent totally fine with it. It’s his last night as a single guy and I trust him 100 percent. My fiance is a great guy and I have no reason not to trust him. He has told me he has never been to one so I don’t see what the harm in it. 

    Post # 63
    Member
    249 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: Bar Harbor Inn

    My fi has really ever gone for bachelor parties. I mean he has fun but doesn’t go any other time. If it was other times, I would be upset. 

    Post # 64
    Member
    118 posts
    Blushing bee

    I voted we go together, but only because I am only ok with it if I go with him.  I am not a fan of him going without me. Although, I wouldn’t flip out if he was out with friends and they ended up going to a strip club, it just would not be my top option.

    Post # 65
    Member
    5154 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    BlondeeBee:  My husband basically goes if its a bachelor party and thats part of the plan. He did not go for his own bachelor party because he’s not really into it. I dont really care about him going, I would prefer if he didnt have a lap dance, but honestly, I don’t want to know if he did. I trust him and I know he’s not into strippers. He’s pretty OCD so I’m pretty sure he thinks strip clubs are just dirty and gross. 

    Post # 66
    Member
    683 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    I trust my husband but no he is not going to a strip club.

    he has no reason to surround himself with naked women that’s not me. Nope. Ain’t happenin. I’m not insecure either btw, I just wont let that filth into my marriage

    Post # 67
    Member
    220 posts
    Helper bee

    It hasn’t come up since we’ve been together but I know he’s been in the past with his friends.  I’m generally fine with it, I trust him so it’s a non issue really.  He hasn’t expressed any interest in them since we’ve met so I don’t know whether he’s still interested in going to them.

    For the bees who are not ok with their SOs going to strip clubs what happens if they are invited to a bachelor party where a strip club is on the agenda?  Do your SOs just decline those invites or do they go along to the weekend but go home before the strip club?  Just curious – I’d imagine most guys, whether they’re into strip clubs or not would just go along with the crowd especially if it was the bachelor party of a good friend, no?  

     

    Post # 68
    Member
    989 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    I answered that I’m ok with it but he doesn’t want to go anyway. 

    Maybe if it was a regular event I’d feel different but if it wouldn’t bother me at all if he was just going for a bachelor party/birthday/stag 

    • This reply was modified 4 years, 7 months ago by  SellyJo.

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