(Closed) strip clubs

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Calm down it’s not that big of a deal if they are just looking. 

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper

Just tell your Fiance you don’t want him to have strippers or a strip club as part of the pre-wedding festivities.

I told mine. His response was “Me neither. But I have to plan my own bach party because I don’t trust some of my more idiot friends not to try to surprise me with something like that. Anyway that’s fine ’cause I’ve got some big plans I wanna do for it…like jetskiing!”

Parntership and communication FTW 🙂

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I am not a big fan of strip clubs either, and I’m not sure if this was your intention, but your post is a little off-putting. If you don’t want your SO to have strippers at his bachelor party, then tell him you don’t want him to have strippers. Other girls are fine with this, and if that works for their relationship, then great. No need to put them down for that.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Allowing one’s groom to go to a strip club isn’t to allow him to sleep with another woman… Sure, there may be the desire to, but they are not supposed to act on it. And if they do, well, it is better to know he is a cheater before marrying him!

Personally, I quite love the idea of my groom going off for one last night of male shinanigans. Plus, I want to enjoy one last night of female shinanigans, and so I would therefore be a hypocrite if I did not allow him to do so.

Moreover, nothing is more satisfying to me than knowing my FH went out, saw incredibly attractive, naked women dancing around, but STILL came home to me. That is a test of loyalty if I ever saw one.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

@LostInWonderland:  True.

 

And, communication is key…of course you need to express your desires/dissatisfaction with something that your SO does/doesn’t do or want to do, whatever.  I’ve been to strip clubs before (being silly) and a male review (another being silly in Vegas).  Did that mean I wanted to have sex with the girls at the strip club and the guys at the male review?  Uh, no! 😛

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

…………..what exactly is the point of this post?

Looking at stripers does not equal screwing everything that moves.

Since when did you decide you were The One who determined what was morally right and wrong for everyone on this planet?

“Men never will until we help them”  Do you really think men have no control and cannot see beyond their penises?  Why do men need our help with this??  Are they that incapable?

Not caring if someone goes to a strip club equals no spine?

This post confuses me

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

What is the point of this post? Do you have a question or just want to be judgemental towards other women and the decisions they make in their relationships? If you have a problem with men going to strip clubs, that between you and your SO.

 

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Strip clubs are SO AWFUL! I won’t say he can’t go, but I utterly dispise the thought of some girl rubbing herself all over MY man and giving him an erection and EWW if that happened anywhere else it would be cheating light! But somehow in a club it’s okay?

UGH I hate it but you have to be a “cool FI/wife”, right? I can’t be the only one who says “Please dont!”

On the bright side, he hasn’t gone since before we met… But his bachelor party is coming up and I am FREAKING out!

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

@AClue:  I live in a world where I trust my husband.

Women are like a menu, and before someone gets their panties in a bunch, men are just as much of a menu as well.

It’s okay to look off the menu, it’s not okay to order off of it.

My husband has not had his bachelor party and he will when we fly out to California. His best man has already told me there will be strippers. Do I think my husband is going to fuck some random broad? Hell no. He’s a good man, and he’ll oggle them and maybe throw a few bucks at them.

Strippers are not sluts. They are not eyeballing your man (Lets be serious here, you’re probably the only one who wants to screw your husband.) and going, “I’m going to bang that tonight.” Nah, that doesn’t happen nearly as often as many women like to think it does. Strippers are hard working women who are there for a job. While we’re being honest, stripping makes good money. If you’re good at it, and you don’t mind, why the hell not? I know a few stripper from college who are good, decent women. One is married and both have children.

 

Get off your high horse. <3

Post # 13
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

WTF. This is the craziest of all crazy stripper posts ever! 

Post # 15
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Hyperventilate:  “Strippers are not sluts. They are not eyeballing your man (Lets be serious here, you’re probably the only one who wants to screw your husband.) and going, “I’m going to bang that tonight.” Nah, that doesn’t happen nearly as often as many women like to think it does. Strippers are hard working women who are there for a job. While we’re being honest, stripping makes goodmoney. If you’re good at it, and you don’t mind, why the hell not? I know a few stripper from college who are good, decent women. One is married and both have children.”

+1.  I know/knew some awesome strippers.  None of them want your man and many of them are really great, fun people!  I really don’t understand that line of thinking.

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@kes18:  

@AmyFarrahFowler:  

+1 you wanted to make your first post to criticize what others do? 

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