(Closed) Stripper at bach party – VENT about the aftermath

posted 4 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
1263 posts
Bumble bee

katkat123:  I find their actions thoughtless. I would probably be tempted to tell them how I feel (esp since they asked). At least that might prevent them from doing that to another “friend.”

Post # 3
5014 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Send them an email saying thanks for the great night, but it stays between you all. Done and done.

Post # 4
1683 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

katkat123:  i would have been so mad! i’ve made it insanely clear that if there is a stripper at mine, i’m gonna be so mad! i appreciate all that they are doing to give me this party…but i will flip if i have to be involved in that. so gross IMO…

Post # 5
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I agree with PP that you felt bad for the guy because they purchased his services and no one wanted him to dance for them. Although you were the bride a stripper was not something you wanted and you felt obligated to have him dance for you. Tell them you didn’t have fun and wish they would stop talking about it. I mean really how immature of them to act this way.

Post # 6
7 posts

That’s pretty lousy behavior, really. Thoughtless and just… Argh. Frustrating. It’s like playing an infantile little trick.

Post # 7
424 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016 - Our Castle

Id tell them they are stupid and obviously dont know me very well..

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