Post # 182
thank you for adding a male POV, if only more men thought this way. I totally agree with you on saying that actions like these are not attractive.
i had an incident with general frat boy behavior by my now Fiance, that happened early in our relationship, that I had the immense privilege of viewing on YouTube. I told him that I didn’t think he was that type of man and I’ve always thought less of those kind of men and find it unattractive. And just how disappointing it was to see that.
I could tell he took the words to heart.
its nice to hear a guy actually say this though, thanks again!
Post # 183
@damon1: I think you nailed it on the head:
” are naturally going to be opposed to a random woman getting naked for their man.”
True, there will be a lot of negativity when another woman is getting naked for someone elses soon to be husband. I don’t mean to sound snarky, it’s the truth.
I think for many it’s difficult to go into an open and honest marriage with this as the pre-lude to the ceremony.
Post # 184
I knew a girl who was a bartender at a strip club, and she said the girls who are not American born seem to be more likely to do the “extra” because laws are different where they are from and their version of normal is different. I think it is just a job. I don’t look down on others, I don’t care what folks do for a living. I think women need to have an issue with their men and not the strippers. Strippers are trying to make a buck. That is all. If your man is dumb enough to cheat on you with a stripper before the wedding, then clearly he is not the one. I think that is quite simple. As for the prostitutes who are making strippers look bad, they are also only in it for the fast cash. They are not making these men do anything they don’t want to do.