(Closed) stripping?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

Well.. I don’t strip (although it’s an idea now that I think about it lol) BUT I did once get the Carmen Electra strip tease workout video.. the dance routine BUT there’s a lap dance one too.

Maybe that?

Feeling Sexy DOES = Sexy though so whatever you find just be comfortable in it and don’t do anything too crazy that would still be awkard to do.

Guys really are easy… I think just enjoying the tease in taking each piece off is enough for most. lol

might wanna check out some burlesque (sp) videos on youtube too?

Sorry I can’t be more help…. I think it’ll be a great Wedding Night surprise ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

@cyndistar3: I like burlesque b/c it’s more about the tease and just having fun with it… Goodluck =)

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

I don’t really have any advice for clothing, but my girls took me to a pole dancing class for my bachelorette, and one of the best tips the teacher gave us was “when in doubt, touch yourself”. She had us lightly caress the side of our faces and then let our fingertips continue down our necks and over the curvy bits. And honestly, watching ourselves in the big dance mirror, it was HOT.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Torrid has really cute plus size lingerie. Good luck.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

MUSIC!! You have to have the right music. I’m sure there is a song you can recall that when you hear it it makes you want to seductively dance. For some people songs like

Candy Shop-50 Cent

Closer- Nine Inch Nails

Sexy Back – Justin Timberlake

Change- Deftones (this one is dark and sexy IMO…and just makes me think of that scene in Queen of the Damned. *Fans self* )

Slave For You-Brittney Spears

I’m sure Sean Paul has some, but I can’t think of them.

 

And don’t forget the effect a well done hair toss/flip can have. Once when I was in Barnes and Noble I went to a section that had books on sexy fun times. There was a cute cartoon book that had drawings on moves to try. 

It also wont hurt to practice! Take a pole dancing class if you have the funds, or maybe even video tape yourself doing a sort of ….. routine with a chosen song. Whenever I try and improvise with this sort of thing it just comes across as awkward since I’m just not familiar with my body at all. lol

Post # 11
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Busy bee

Lane Bryant, Torrid, Biggalslingerie.  Frederick’s of Hollywood has some plus-sized stuff, but they may not be big enough for you (I don’t know what you look like, but I know Frederick’s likely isn’t big enough for me lol).  The BBW/SSBBW paysite models I know seem to like the first 3 sites I mentioned.  I’ve only personally used Lane Bryant

 

As for songs, I’m fond of “Disco Inferno” by 50 Cent and “Teeth” by Lady Gaga.  Those songs make me feel strippy Tongue out.

 

When I strip, I usually tie my guy to a chair and give him a lapdance…freeing his hands when I feel like it lol.  

Post # 14
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Busy bee

I think Frederick’s will work for you, then Smile.  I’m about 10 sizes bigger than you, so I’m more familiar with the very-big-girl stores lol.  

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

Red Light Special will work! lol (I’m playing it on youtube for fun and my bf is giving me the strangest look. lmao)

Don’t forget to move slow! I have a hard time remembering this being a more bouncy person and I’ve been told a little slower movement in the hip area would be an improvement.

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