(Closed) Struggling over boyfriend's past….

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 66
3223 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

I think you may need a bit of personal counselling alongside whatever you two do as couples counselling, because it sounds like you have some attitudes towards sex and sexuality that are disconnected from each other… Like the 15 cyber partners vs. 3 in person partners. Remember you can’t change the past, only the future.

Post # 75
4698 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

XOSMarieOX:  Well then, you appear to be insecure about the amount of partners he’s had. Which I think is a sign of immaturity, we’ve all had pasts.. Some more colorful than others. It doesn’t make him a bad person, it makes him a person whose had experiences.. Some good, some bad.

Ideally, he’ll have learned a lot and moving forward with you he’ll be able to be the best partner he can be and the best father he can be. One thing that may help your insecurity? He was completely honest with you about his past and you found out from his mouth about it, not elsewhere.



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