(Closed) Struggling over boyfriend's past….

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 121
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3277 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

XOSMarieOX:  

Your boyfriend is not perfect and neither are you, so it might help to get off your high horse. Why torture yourself with needless insecurity about your boyfriend’s past? He is with you now! If you are this judgmental then I am not surprised that he didn’t tell you these things before. 

This is why I believe that no good can come from learning what your partner’s “number” is. I have had far more sexual partners than my husband and guess what? HE DOESN’T CARE. All he cares about is my fidelity to him and whether or not I have any STIs. 

What will happen when your child makes mistakes? Are you going to hold them against him/her too?

 

 

Post # 122
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105 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

You either accept he has a past, a different sort of one to you but not an absolutely horrific one to be honest, or you don’t be with him. Everyone has things they don’t like about their pasts so either accept the person he is today or find someone you won’t be so judgemental towards.

Post # 125
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105 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

XOSMarieOX:  Just a suggestion, could the fact you’re pregnant be the reason you’re getting so upset over these things anyway? Hormones can be a bitch, so maybe you’re over thinking everything because you’re so full of hormones right now.

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