(Closed) Struggling over STUPID Stuff!

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
2831 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I don’t think you are being petty. Get the ring you were meant to wear! Esp if your Fiance is supporting you. Don’t settle because the jeweler made a mistake.

Post # 4
2008 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

have it remade.  You’re right, its not like your Fiance picked it out and you just don’t like his taste.  Its not what he paid for, they messed it up!  I guess I don’t see the problem as a problem.  Get what you want!

Post # 5
148 posts
Blushing bee

Yeah, I agree with everyone else so far. It’s not petty. It was a simple mistake on the part of the jeweler, and it shouldn’t be a big deal to get the one you two actually agreed on.

Post # 6
700 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2004

i would definitely have it remade.

Post # 7
2556 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I don’t think it’s petty because your fiance obviously valued your opinion on the style ering he was going to purchase for you.  You found a style you loved & the jeweler made a mistake.  So, while, yes, maybe you are losing the sentimental value, this ring isn’t what either of you picked out.  Can you use the same center diamond?  At least you can hold on to that as a part of the original proposal.

Post # 8
1430 posts
Bumble bee

Def have it remade to the one you love. Can you keep the center stone and just put it in the new setting so then atleast you have the diamond he proposed with? I think you will be kicking yourself if you keep the ring you don’t like as much later down the line. And better to fix it sooner than later.

Post # 9
462 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I agree with everyone else. The jeweler made a mistake, let him fix it.

Post # 10
11419 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

I agree with pps.  If you do not like the ring, I would have the correct ring made and exchange the one on which the jeweler erred. I do think the rings are both beautiful and are very similar, but I totally understand your being bothered by the differences.

Post # 12
309 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I would definitely get the ring you really wanted!  

Post # 13
4713 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1998

Get it remade

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