Struggling with my vegan wedding plans

posted 2 years ago in Food
Post # 76
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I firmly believe that hosting is about making sure your guests are taken care of and treated to an experience they can recognize as  celebratory.

My future Mother-In-Law, Brother-In-Law and SIL are all vegans, so I’ve arranged for a chef who is skilled in vegan cuisine to prepare their meals. It’s important to me that they enjoy their meals. I don’t want them to politely claim that it was good when it wasn’t. I can’t understand the sentiment of “one meal that is not to their liking wont kill them.” 

If you do decide to go full vegan, I agree with other bees that there is no need to announce the type of menu. To me, a blurb about vegan food makes the wedding sound more like a consciousness raising event rather than a celebration of a union. 

Post # 77
10358 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

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crazychickenlady : 

for one meal, get with a local, ethical, small farmer. One where you can see the animals are happy and you know they were raised cruelty-free…

Yes but the point is  , she doesn’t want any animal  to die for her wedding. That it had a relatively happy life is , you know,  not enough.  

Post # 78
561 posts
Busy bee

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elderbee :  actually I believe she was here asking for ideas and help. Of which I gave her an idea… Thank you for coming back 4 weeks later with a useless comment… You didn’t help the OP, at all. 


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